{"id":1531,"date":"2021-11-25T14:00:15","date_gmt":"2021-11-25T14:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/Web\/?p=1531"},"modified":"2024-04-07T16:31:20","modified_gmt":"2024-04-07T16:31:20","slug":"cocugun-davranislarina-sinir-koyabilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/cocugun-davranislarina-sinir-koyabilmek\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011fun Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na S\u0131n\u0131r Koyabilmek"},"content":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fimsel s\u00fcrecinde ke\u015fif davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 yer almaktad\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ana motivasyonu merakt\u0131r. Merak da ke\u015ffetmeyi beraberinde getirir. Neyin uygun oldu\u011funu, neyin yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, sosyal ve aile d\u00fczenini anlamak i\u00e7in bir\u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7evresini ke\u015ffetmeye programl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklara s\u0131n\u0131r koydu\u011fumuzda, kaotik ve karma\u015f\u0131k olabilecek bir d\u00fcnyada tahmin edilebilirli\u011fi ve g\u00fcvenli\u011fi ke\u015ffetmelerine yard\u0131m etmi\u015f oluruz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlara, rehberli\u011fe ve yap\u0131ya ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r.\n\n<strong>DUYGULARINI KABUL EDEREK REDDETMEK<\/strong>\n\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun sahici bir istekte bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ve bu iste\u011fin hakl\u0131 bir gereksinime dayanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan eminseniz bu iste\u011fi reddetmeyi bilmek ku\u015fkusuz faydal\u0131d\u0131r. Pek \u00e7ok ebeveyn sarsaca\u011f\u0131, ac\u0131 \u00e7ektirece\u011fi veya sevgisini kaybedece\u011fi korkusuyla \u00e7ocu\u011funu reddetmeye cesaret edemez.\n\n\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun, \u00f6fkesini g\u00f6stermeye hakk\u0131 vard\u0131r; bu d\u00fc\u015f k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hissedilen do\u011fal bir duygudur. \u201cDo\u011fru, istedi\u011fin \u015fekerlemeye ula\u015famamak seni ger\u00e7ekten hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011fratt\u0131\/\u00fczd\u00fc\u201d benzeri bir yakla\u015f\u0131m sergilemek, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza isteklerine hak verildi\u011fini ve anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.\n\n<strong>YASAKLAMAKTANSA TAL\u0130MAT VERMEK<\/strong>\nS\u0131n\u0131rlamak, izin vermek ve bilgilendirmek yasaklamaktan daha etkilidir.\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 dikkatleri belirler. O halde kafalar\u0131nda olu\u015fturdu\u011fumuz imgeler ayn\u0131 zamanda onlar ad\u0131na belirledi\u011fimiz ama\u00e7lard\u0131r. \u0130zinler \u00e7ocu\u011fu dikkatini istenen davran\u0131\u015fa, yasaklar ise istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015fa odaklar. Hen\u00fcz dikkat becerisi yeterince geli\u015fmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in arada s\u0131rada hat\u0131rlatmak yeterlidir.\n\nYeti\u015fkinlerin koyduklar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar, \u00e7ocu\u011fu durdurur ve g\u00fcven verici olur. \u00c7ocuklar olumsuz c\u00fcmleleri kavramsalla\u015ft\u0131rmakta zorlan\u0131rlar. Yapmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011finiz \u015feyi s\u00f6yleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin \u201conlar\u0131 yere atmak yerine onlar\u0131 buraya (masa, koltuk, odas\u0131 vb.) koyabilirsin.\u201d\n\n<strong>TEK S\u00d6Z YETER!<\/strong>\nTalimat verdi\u011finizde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bunu hat\u0131rlamas\u0131 i\u00e7in tek s\u00f6z yeterlidir. Tek s\u00f6zc\u00fck beyindeki karma\u015f\u0131k sistemi devreye sokmadan eyleme ge\u00e7mesini sa\u011flar.\n\nS\u00f6z konusu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar oldu\u011funda s\u00f6zel uyaranla dikkatini y\u00f6neltmesi ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmesi zor olur. Yan\u0131na gidip, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f alan\u0131na girmek nazik\u00e7e dokunarak istedi\u011finizi s\u00f6ylemek, gerekirse yap\u0131lacak \u015feyi g\u00f6stermek gerekir.\n\n<strong>SORUMLULUK VERMEK<\/strong>\nGenellikle soru sormak harikalar yarat\u0131r \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun neredeyse an\u0131nda beyninin \u00f6n k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7irir; durumu inceler ve bazen sizin bile akl\u0131n\u0131za gelmeyecek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler bulabilir.\n\n<strong>B\u0130LG\u0130LEND\u0130RMEK<\/strong>\n\u00c7ocu\u011funuza emir vermek yerine bilgi vererek beyninin \u00f6n k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 harekete ge\u00e7irirsiniz. Bunun iki avantaj\u0131 vard\u0131r: \u00c7ocuk kendini \u00f6zne olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaya da gerek duymaz. Bu sayede zekas\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6zerk karar verme sistemini geli\u015ftirir.\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Mini Kul\u00fcp \u00c7ocuk Evi Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanlar\u0131<\/strong>\n<!-- \/wp:post-content --><!-- \/wp:freeform -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fimsel s\u00fcrecinde ke\u015fif davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 yer almaktad\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ana motivasyonu merakt\u0131r. Merak da ke\u015ffetmeyi beraberinde getirir. Neyin uygun oldu\u011funu, neyin yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, sosyal ve aile d\u00fczenini anlamak i\u00e7in bir\u00e7ok davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7evresini ke\u015ffetmeye programl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklara s\u0131n\u0131r koydu\u011fumuzda, kaotik ve karma\u015f\u0131k olabilecek bir d\u00fcnyada tahmin edilebilirli\u011fi ve g\u00fcvenli\u011fi ke\u015ffetmelerine yard\u0131m etmi\u015f oluruz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rlara, rehberli\u011fe ve<\/p>\n<div class=\"klb-readmore\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/cocugun-davranislarina-sinir-koyabilmek\/\" class=\"btn btn-primary\">READ MORE<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1533,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1531","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikolojik-yazilar","col-lg-12 mb-5"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1531"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1991,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1531\/revisions\/1991"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1533"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}