{"id":1952,"date":"2024-01-07T18:58:19","date_gmt":"2024-01-07T18:58:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/?p=1952"},"modified":"2024-04-07T16:25:39","modified_gmt":"2024-04-07T16:25:39","slug":"aileye-yeni-uye-kardes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/aileye-yeni-uye-kardes\/","title":{"rendered":"Aileye Yeni \u00dcye &#8211; Karde\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"Bir bebe\u011fin d\u00fcnyaya geli\u015fi ve ailesine kat\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131 o ailedeki herkes i\u00e7in yeni bir durumdur. Bu yeni\nduruma t\u00fcm aile bireylerinin al\u0131\u015fabilmesi, zaman gerektiren bir ihtiya\u00e7t\u0131r. Ve bu yenili\u011fi benimsemeye\n\u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken evdeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015flerin zihinlerinde bir\u00e7ok soru i\u015faretinin olu\u015fmas\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u2018\u2019 Ne\nkadar da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck\u2026 Ne zaman b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek\u2026 Neden a\u011fl\u0131yor\u2026 Art\u0131k bizimle mi kalacak&#8230; B\u00fct\u00fcn bu soru\nbaloncuklar\u0131 ile \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131, heyecanlar\u0131 ve meraklar\u0131 ayn\u0131 tavada kavrulmaya ba\u015flar. Ve yava\u015f yava\u015f,\nsorular\u0131na yan\u0131t ararlarken yeni duruma adaptasyon sa\u011flarlar.\n\nKarde\u015fe uyum s\u00fcrecinde ak\u0131\u015fta kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocuk, s\u00fcrece yeti\u015fkinlerin hatal\u0131 tepkileri dahil\noldu\u011funda bu ak\u0131\u015ftan \u00e7\u0131kabilir. Yeti\u015fkin, bu ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 bozmamak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekenleri yapmayarak\ns\u00fcrece yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur:\n\n<strong>&gt;<\/strong> Ko\u015fulsuz sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir \u00e7ocuk, karde\u015finin bu sevgiyi azaltaca\u011f\u0131na dair otomatik bir inan\u00e7\ngeli\u015ftirmez. Karde\u015fin k\u0131skan\u0131lacak bir ki\u015fi oldu\u011fu bilgisini asl\u0131nda yeti\u015fkin \u00e7ocu\u011fa ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r, o y\u00fczdendir\nki \u2018\u2019k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k\u2019\u2019 kelimesini kullan\u0131p \u00e7ocu\u011fa empoze edilmemelidir.\n\n<strong>&gt;<\/strong> Her \u00e7ocuk, bir an \u00f6nce b\u00fcy\u00fcmek ve a\u011fabey-abla olmak ister. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fa, a\u011fabey-abla olma\nsorumlulu\u011fu y\u00fcklenirse durum can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 olabilir o y\u00fczden \u00e7ocu\u011fa yap\u0131lan \u2018\u2019Siz karde\u015fsiniz.\u2019\u2019 \u0130fadesi\ndaha birle\u015ftirici olacakt\u0131r.\n\n<strong>&gt; <\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fa karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131 haberi bir m\u00fcjde gibi verilmelidir. Yeni karde\u015fin aile i\u00e7in s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve zorluk\nolabilece\u011fi alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocukta olu\u015fmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in, ebeveynlerin bebekle ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 karde\u015fe\nyans\u0131tmamas\u0131 daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\n\n<strong>&gt; <\/strong>Annenin, kendi fiziksel de\u011fi\u015fimi ve do\u011fum s\u00fcreciyle ilgili bilgileri \u00e7ocu\u011funun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun \u015fekilde\na\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011funun sorular sormas\u0131na olanak sa\u011flamas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hen\u00fcz anne karn\u0131ndaki\nkarde\u015fiyle ba\u011f kurmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.\n\n<strong>&gt; <\/strong>3 ya\u015f\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar, bebek al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi gibi haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcrecine dahil edilebilir. Ancak hastane\nkontrollerine birlikte gitme konusunda dikkat edilmesi gerekir \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011fun annesinin ac\u0131 \u00e7ekiyor\noldu\u011funa inanmas\u0131 kayg\u0131 ve korku dolu olabilir. Anne, karde\u015fi g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in gereken makinenin sadece\nhastanede oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131 ve ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmedi\u011fini, can\u0131n\u0131n yanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funa g\u00fcvenilir bir \u015fekilde\na\u00e7\u0131klamal\u0131d\u0131r.\n\n<strong>&gt; <\/strong>Karde\u015fle tan\u0131\u015fma an\u0131; do\u011fum ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftikten ve annenin durumu normale d\u00f6nd\u00fckten sonra, sadece\nanne, baba ve \u00e7ocuklar ba\u015f ba\u015fa olacak \u015fekilde yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun karde\u015fine dokunmas\u0131na onunla\nkonu\u015fmas\u0131na izin verilmelidir, bu ba\u011f kurma a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7lendirici olacakt\u0131r.\n\n<strong>&gt; <\/strong>Do\u011fum sonras\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7in, \u2018\u2019Ellerini y\u0131ka karde\u015fine dokunmadan!\u2019\u2019 \u015feklinde kural koyan bir ebeveyn\ntutumundan ziyade \u2018\u2019Bebe\u011fe dokunmadan ellerimizi y\u0131kamal\u0131y\u0131z, ben unutursam hat\u0131rlat\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n?\nHadi gel beraber y\u0131kayal\u0131m.\u2019\u2019 \u015feklinde daha uygulay\u0131c\u0131 bir model benimsemek \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00fcrece\nkat\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131rmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan daha peki\u015ftirici olacakt\u0131r.\n\n\n\n<!-- \/wp:post-content -->\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Mini Kul\u00fcp \u00c7ocuk Evi Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanlar\u0131<\/strong>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- \/wp:freeform -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir bebe\u011fin d\u00fcnyaya geli\u015fi ve ailesine kat\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131 o ailedeki herkes i\u00e7in yeni bir durumdur. Bu yeni duruma t\u00fcm aile bireylerinin al\u0131\u015fabilmesi, zaman gerektiren bir ihtiya\u00e7t\u0131r. Ve bu yenili\u011fi benimsemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken evdeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015flerin zihinlerinde bir\u00e7ok soru i\u015faretinin olu\u015fmas\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u2018\u2019 Ne kadar da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck\u2026 Ne zaman b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek\u2026 Neden a\u011fl\u0131yor\u2026 Art\u0131k bizimle mi kalacak&#8230; B\u00fct\u00fcn bu<\/p>\n<div class=\"klb-readmore\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/aileye-yeni-uye-kardes\/\" class=\"btn btn-primary\">READ MORE<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1953,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1952","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikolojik-yazilar","col-lg-12 mb-5"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1952","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1952"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1952\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1979,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1952\/revisions\/1979"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1952"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1952"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.minikulupcocukevi.com\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}